In life there will always be struggle, never be afraid to fail at least you try better than those who don't try. There is no such thing as risk taking when it comes to every trouble that you meet in our life. Even in friendship is whether you treasure it or not. if that person really cares for you that much this means that no matter what happens in relationship? They will still forgive you and Forgiveness is the key to build a good relationship. If you can't let it go what has happened in the past, then you will be a person who would have live in past forever because you don't want to face it.
There are different types of scenarios:
a) Instead of becoming a person who keep on talking negative stuff about yourself and other people why can't you see a positive perspective of yourself? And also why do you want to tell other people's negative stuff to another person and spread around neighborhood and blame others? That is one thing that I don't understand about you. Is not like you are the only one who faces all those " Chinese New Year Questions" even I also have to be answerable to my relatives just say the truth and show them what you are capable of and how much you have improve in your life.
In conclusion when it comes to neighbors and petty questions from family and comments from them , just ignore them and let them say whatever they want. Although is not easy.
b) When it comes to the person whom I like , I guess is also good that I leave Petra at least he is serving well in Petra and I do believe he would be getting a partner who is far much better than me and that they will serve together in the same church.Of course don't need to kacau him anymore.
In conclusion, "is nothing" just like what Steph said ( is hard for anyone to understand that kind of feeling) and maybe for me to find another guy would be after 10 years down the road.
c) For church wise whereby I was indirectly ************* by my own mother and one of my family members mine (maternal).
In conclusion, The best thing is 100% rely on God and no one else. God will open the path for you so long as you stick to God. And of course remember not to rely on our strength but rely on God. The most important thing is that He will never leave us alone.
In general, None of us are perfect in this life because we are humans no matter who we are. There will be more challenges for my coming life and excuses and reason to avoid or face problems will always be a stumbling for most of us. Remember you are not alone and that someone is watching you! And that there is also so many people who loves even God loves all of us even we are lonely.
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